By the time a solicitation is public, the relationship window that decides most shortlists has already closed. RAIN Group's research found 82% of buyers accept meetings from sellers who reach out proactively, and 71% of buyers who take early meetings want to talk to sellers before they've even decided what they need — which is exactly the moment an RFP hasn't been written yet.
Why does waiting for the RFP put a firm at a disadvantage?
Because by publication, the client's evaluators, priorities, and often their preferred firm shape have already formed — sometimes informally through conversations you weren't part of. Responding cold to a public solicitation means competing purely on the document, against firms who may have shaped the client's thinking before the document existed.
Isn't reaching out before an RFP just cold outreach with more effort?
Not if it's framed as helping the client think, not pitching a project that doesn't exist yet. RAIN Group's research found 82% of buyers accept meetings from proactive sellers, and importantly, 71% of buyers taking early meetings specifically want to engage before they've locked in their requirements — meaning early outreach isn't intrusive if it arrives while the client is still shaping the problem, not after they've decided.
Who should a firm actually be prospecting before an RFP exists?
The people who see projects forming before they're public: developers, facilities directors, planning staff at agencies you want to work with, and the adjacent professionals — contractors, brokers, engineers — who hear about projects early. The goal isn't to sell them on a specific opportunity; it's to be a known, credible name by the time one exists.
How does this connect to public procurement specifically?
In NYC and similar QBS-governed markets, the RFQ stage evaluates qualifications and relevant experience — but the firms who make the shortlist are frequently the ones who understood the agency's priorities before the solicitation dropped, because that understanding shapes how convincingly a Statement of Qualifications speaks to what the evaluators actually care about. Relationship-building before the RFQ isn't a workaround to QBS — it's what makes the SOQ itself sharper when the time comes.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do buyers actually want to be approached before they've issued an RFP? Yes — RAIN Group found 82% of buyers accept meetings from proactive sellers, and 71% of buyers taking early meetings specifically want to talk before their requirements are finalized.
Isn't this the same as cold outreach? The framing differs: effective early outreach helps the client think through a problem they haven't fully defined yet, rather than pitching a specific solution to a decision they've already made.
Who should architecture firms build early relationships with? Developers, facilities directors, agency planning staff, and adjacent professionals (contractors, brokers, engineers) who see projects forming before a public solicitation exists.
Does pre-RFP relationship-building help with public procurement specifically? Yes — in QBS markets like NYC, understanding an agency's priorities before the RFQ drops makes the resulting Statement of Qualifications more convincing to evaluators, even though the process itself is qualifications-based.
About the Author

Kitae Kim
Architect with 10 years of experience in design and client communication. Co-founder of Foveate, the Pursuit Intelligence Platform for AEC firms. Former studio lead who saw too many winning designs lose to worse proposals.
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